Sunday, December 16, 2007

Tough Love for Illegals.

Tough Love is one of the most common paths parents of struggling teens have to travel.
Many cannot understand or grasp the concept of, Tough Love or "not enabling" the child to ruin or run the family unit. Enduring life with a teen that is running the home can result in many uproars, conflicts, arguments, battles, and sometimes psychical and verbal abuse. Tough Love is exactly that: Tough. Loving our children is unconditional, but we don’t have to like what they are doing or how they are destroying their lives.
There will come a time when a parent realizes enough is enough! This is the time that they need the support from outside sources, such as a Tough Love support groups, along with professional intervention. This does not reflect you as a parent, nor does it place blame on the family, it is the child that is making the bad choices and the family is suffering from it.
I pasted th above article from a site I found while researching tough love. Whats my point?
Well... Ive gone "round and round" with the pro-illegal crowd around here and they always ignore little facts like...Laws..and soveriegnty so on and so forth. So I thought Id take MY argument to their "emotional"level.
For my metaphor the above "teen" represents the illegals and , of course the "family" is America... Are you starting to see my point? We do the illegals no favors when we "enable" them to allow Mexico to let them live in poverty. Now is the time to say "enough is enough" as stated above this does not reflect badly on the "family"( as mpvan and ilovemyillegal love to say)It is the bad choices of the "child/teen"that cause the problem.
Come on America!!!!! lets show em' we all really do have hearts and exert a little more tough love on the illegals and maybe just maybe we can save our "family".

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